I have known her for several years, and since her divorce, she has been using a hormonal birth control method. It's been extremely effective, and we haven't had any issues for several years. However, last week, she told me that she hasn't had her period, and I began to wonder if she might be pregnant. As she is in her thirties, I figured it's less likely, but then I thought about how much I want to have a daughter. The problem is that she doesn't want to have another child. Firstly, she already has a daughter from her previous marriage, whom she is currently supporting through school. Secondly, as a high-risk pregnancy for women of her age, and considering her job requirements, which we have kept a secret from her family and friends, and lastly, our financial situation, with my monthly income of around $10,000 and savings of approximately $100,000, I am unsure if we can afford to raise another child. This week, I plan to accompany her to the hospital to confirm whether she is indeed pregnant, and if so, whether we should give birth to the child. Online reports suggest that this method of birth control is highly likely to result in ectopic pregnancy, which can be detrimental to the unborn child.